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Shantel Farrow

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Shantel Farrow

Oklahoma

Compassionate, practical therapy for everyday struggles

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  • Men's wellbeing focus
  • LMFT licensed clinician
  • Collaborative goal setting

About Shantel

Shantel Farrow is a licensed marriage and family therapist who helps people manage stress, anxiety, depression, relationship concerns, and major life transitions. She works with clients who are dealing with trauma, addiction, grief, intimacy issues, ADHD, and self-esteem struggles. Based in Oklahoma, she offers a calm, respectful presence and practical support for people trying to regain balance.

Shantel uses straightforward, person-centered methods that focus on the client's needs. She draws on attachment-based ideas to look at how early relationships shape current patterns. She also uses cognitive behavioral strategies to help people notice unhelpful thinking and try new behaviors.

Her work includes trauma-focused tools when past events continue to cause distress. She can incorporate EMDR techniques as one way to address memories that interfere with daily life. Shantel also brings existential perspectives when people are wrestling with meaning, purpose, or big life questions.

Over eight years of practice have given her experience with a wide range of concerns, including caregiving stress, chronic illness, blended family issues, body image, and parenting challenges. She frames therapy as a collaborative process and helps people set realistic goals they can use between sessions.

Shantel emphasizes culturally responsive care and tends to people who identify across the LGBT spectrum. She aims to help clients build concrete coping skills, improve communication, and strengthen emotional resilience.

How her approaches translate to online work

Shantel often draws on attachment-based therapy to look at patterns in close relationships and how they affect current feelings and behavior; this can help with intimacy, trust, and communication problems. She also uses cognitive behavioral therapy, which focuses on identifying unhelpful thoughts and testing new behaviors to reduce anxiety and improve mood. When trauma is a central concern, she may incorporate EMDR-informed strategies to address distressing memories and their effects.

Choosing an approach is a collaborative process. The therapist will talk with the client about goals, symptoms, and personal preferences, then suggest which methods to try first. Progress is reviewed together and the plan is adjusted as needed.

Because the original biography does not list specific session formats, confirm available options before booking. Online therapy can make it easier to fit sessions into a workday, reduce travel time, and allow shorter check-ins when schedules are tight. It can also remove the need to be on camera for those who prefer phone or audio-only conversations depending on what the therapist offers. Overall, online work aims to help clients apply new skills in everyday life and keep momentum between sessions.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Stress, AnxietyRelationship issuesFamily conflictsTrauma and abuseDepression

Also works with

AddictionsLGBTGriefIntimacy-related issuesEating disordersSleeping disordersParenting issuesAnger managementSelf esteemCareer difficultiesBipolar disorderCoping with life changesCoachingCompassion fatigueADHD

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAdoption and foster careAttachment issuesBlended family issuesBody imageCancerCaregiver issues and stressChronic pain, illness, and disabilityCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesCoping with natural or human-caused disasterDependent personalityDisruptive Mood Dysregulation Disorder (DMDD)DissociationDivorce and separationDomestic violenceDrug and alcohol addictionEmptinessFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFertility issuesFirst responder issuesForgivenessGuilt and shameHoardingImpulsivityInfidelityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisMoney and financial issuesMood disordersMulticultural concernsNarcissismObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPanic disorder and panic attacksParanoiaPostpartum depressionPost-traumatic stressPregnancy and childbirthPrejudice and discriminationProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-harmSelf-loveSexual assault and abuseSexual dysfunctionSmoking / vaping cessationSocial anxiety and phobiaSomatizationTrichotillomaniaWomen's issuesWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Attachment-Based TherapyClient-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Existential TherapyEye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR)Mindfulness TherapyMotivational InterviewingNarrative TherapySolution-Focused TherapyTrauma-Focused TherapyInternal Family Systems

Experience

8+ years

Credentials

Oklahoma

Languages

English

Frequently asked questions

What concerns does Shantel commonly address?

Her practice covers stress, anxiety, depression, relationship and family concerns, trauma and abuse, addictions, grief, intimacy and sexual issues, eating and sleeping struggles, anger, self-esteem, career questions, bipolar disorder, ADHD, and related challenges.

How would you describe her therapeutic style?

She uses a person-centered, collaborative approach. Sessions often combine attachment-based work, cognitive behavioral techniques, and trauma-focused tools to meet real-life goals.

What kind of clinical experience does she bring?

She has eight years of clinical experience working with a range of concerns including caregiving stress, chronic illness, blended family issues, and adoption or foster care related matters.

Where is she licensed and based?

She is an OK LMFT and practices in Oklahoma.

Which languages are supported and can international clients connect?

Sessions are offered in English and she does accept international clients.

What should I know about session formats?

The original biography did not list specific session formats. Please confirm current session options before booking so you know which formats are available.

How are fees handled?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability, and sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.

How do I begin working with her?

Use the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule according to therapist availability.

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