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Patience Destiny

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Patience Destiny

United Kingdom

Supportive counsellor for men’s wellbeing and life change

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  • Practical coping strategies
  • Mindfulness and ACT
  • Collaborative sessions

About Patience

Patience Destiny is a counsellor with a focus on men’s wellbeing among other concerns. She works with people facing stress, anxiety, depression and relationship problems. She also supports those dealing with grief, eating and body image issues, and career or life transitions. Her tone is warm and respectful and she aims to make it easier to bring up difficult topics.

Patience uses a mix of approaches and adapts them to each person. She draws on Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT), Client-Centred and Narrative methods to shape sessions around a person's needs. Conversations are collaborative and practical, with time spent noticing patterns and trying small changes.

Her background includes long experience in counselling and psychotherapy and she is a BACP member. That combination informs a style that is interactive and attentive to the whole person. She pays attention to life context, culture and identity when those matter to the presenting issues.

Work in sessions can include talking through emotions, noticing unhelpful thoughts, trying short experiments between meetings, and using mindfulness to manage stress. Patience makes space for creativity and humour where helpful, and encourages clients to bring their own strengths into therapy.

She accepts clients from the United Kingdom and internationally. To begin, clients complete a short matching questionnaire and then arrange sessions based on the therapist’s scheduling process. Fees vary with location and the service uses a subscription that can be cancelled at any time.

How approaches like ACT, CBT and client-centred work online

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) helps people notice thoughts and feelings without getting stuck in them, and then choose actions that match their values. It can be useful for anxiety, stress and for moving through life changes.

Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT) focuses on spotting unhelpful thought patterns and testing small behavioural changes. It often helps with anxiety, low mood and sleep problems by breaking cycles that keep difficulties going.

Client-Centred Therapy places the person's experience at the heart of the work. The therapist offers non-judgemental listening and reflects what’s said so clients feel understood and can find their own solutions.

Finding the right approach is part of the work. Patience will talk with each person about goals and preferences and then suggest methods to try. The choice of approach is collaborative and may be adjusted as therapy unfolds.

The practical advantages of online therapy make it easier to fit sessions into busy lives. Online work can reduce travel time, allow shorter check-ins between meetings, and make scheduling around work or family easier. The biography does not list specific session formats, so please confirm the available options before booking. Many people find that remote sessions let them maintain therapy alongside daily commitments without changing the therapeutic aims.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Stress, AnxietyGriefEating disordersSelf esteemCoaching

Also works with

AddictionsLGBTRelationship issuesFamily conflictsTrauma and abuseIntimacy-related issuesSleeping disordersParenting issuesAnger managementCareer difficultiesDepressionCoping with life changesCompassion fatigue

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAdoption and foster careAging and geriatric issuesAttachment issuesBlended family issuesBody imageCancerCaregiver issues and stressCommitment issuesCommunication problemsCoping with natural or human-caused disasterDivorce and separationEating and food-related issuesEmptinessFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFatherhood issuesFirst responder issuesForgivenessGuilt and shameHIV / AIDSHospice and end-of-life counselingImmigration issuesInfidelityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisMulticultural concernsPost-traumatic stressPrejudice and discriminationSelf-loveSex addictionSexual assault and abuseSexualityWomen's issuesWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)Client-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Mindfulness TherapyNarrative TherapyPsychodynamic TherapySolution-Focused TherapyTrauma-Focused TherapyInternal Family Systems

Experience

13+ years

Credentials

United Kingdom

Languages

English

Frequently asked questions

What concerns does Patience help with?

She works with stress, anxiety, depression and relationship difficulties as well as grief, eating and body image problems. The list also includes career change, parenting strain, addiction and compassion fatigue.

How would you describe the therapeutic style?

Her style is warm, interactive and respectful. Sessions focus on practical steps, reflective conversation and tailoring the work to each person.

What experience does the therapist have?

Patience has 13 years of experience in counselling and psychotherapy. That experience covers both short and longer-term work with a wide range of issues.

What credentials and location are listed?

She is registered with the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy, indicated as BACP, and is based in the United Kingdom.

Which languages are supported for sessions?

Sessions are offered in English, and she accepts clients from outside the UK.

What session formats are available?

The original biography does not specify session formats. Please confirm current session options with the service before booking.

How are fees and payment arranged?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability, and sessions use a subscription that can be cancelled at any time.

How do I start working with Patience?

Use the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and then schedule sessions according to the therapist’s availability.

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