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Lance Nabers

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Lance Nabers

Texas

Experienced counselor for men's wellbeing

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  • 20 years experience
  • Values-based help
  • Practical skills

About Lance

Lance Nabers is a licensed mental health counselor and licensed professional counselor with 20 years of experience. He practices in Texas and has worked with people from several states, bringing long-term experience to everyday struggles. He often supports men focused on wellbeing and practical change. He aims to make sessions straightforward and useful from the first meeting.

He works with common problems like stress, anxiety, depression, addiction, grief, and challenges with intimacy and relationships. He also helps people dealing with career strain, parenting stress, ADHD, and burnout related to caregiving or compassion fatigue. His approach is flexible so it can match what each person actually needs.

Sessions tend to center on clear goals and small steps. He uses therapies that focus on values, thoughts, emotions, and behaviors to help people make changes that fit their life. Conversations emphasize skills you can use between sessions and ways to reduce overwhelm.

Clients often bring practical concerns such as sleeping or eating problems, anger, body image or recovery from trauma and abuse. He also addresses less visible issues like abandonment, attachment injuries, and navigating kink and alternative sex culture. He keeps attention on the client’s priorities and daily functioning.

Lance creates a respectful, non-judgmental space for people to talk through difficult moments. He collaborates with clients to build resilience and clearer plans for change. To start, he asks about current needs and what a better day would look like.

How therapeutic approaches shape online sessions

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy helps people clarify what matters most to them and take small, concrete steps toward those values. It can be useful for stress, anxiety, addiction, and life transitions by focusing on action rather than getting stuck in unhelpful thoughts.

Cognitive Behavioral Therapy looks at the links between thoughts, feelings, and behaviors and teaches practical skills to change patterns. It is often used for anxiety, depression, sleep and eating difficulties, and anger management.

Finding the right approach is a collaborative process. The therapist will talk with each person about goals, preferences, and what has or hasn’t worked before. Together they decide which methods to try and adjust the plan as progress is made.

Confirm the specific online session options before you book, since formats are not listed in the biography. Online work can make it easier to fit therapy into a busy schedule, allow shorter check-ins when needed, and remove travel time. It can also make it simpler to continue work during life transitions or when managing chronic health or caregiving demands. Licensed professionals will help match session length and frequency to what will best support your goals.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Stress, AnxietyAddictionsRelationship issuesTrauma and abuseParenting issues

Also works with

LGBTFamily conflictsGriefIntimacy-related issuesEating disordersSleeping disordersAnger managementSelf esteemCareer difficultiesBipolar disorderDepressionCoping with life changesCoachingCompassion fatigueADHD

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAdoption and foster careAging and geriatric issuesAntisocial personalityAttachment issuesAutism and Asperger SyndromeAvoidant personalityBDSM, kink, and alternative sex cultureBlended family issuesBody imageCancerCaregiver issues and stressChronic pain, illness, and disabilityCo-morbidityCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesCoping with natural or human-caused disasterDependent personalityDisruptive Mood Dysregulation Disorder (DMDD)DissociationDivorce and separationDomestic violenceDrug and alcohol addictionEating and food-related issuesEmptinessFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFatherhood issuesFertility issuesFirst responder issuesForgivenessGender dysphoriaGuilt and shameHIV / AIDSHoardingHospice and end-of-life counselingImmigration issuesImpulsivityInfidelityIntellectual disabilityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisVeteran and Armed Forces IssuesMoney and financial issuesMood disordersMulticultural concernsNarcissismObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPanic disorder and panic attacksParanoiaPersonality disordersPhobiasPolyamory / non-monogamous relationshipsPostpartum depressionPost-traumatic stressPregnancy and childbirthPrejudice and discriminationProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-harmSelf-loveSex addictionSexual assault and abuseSexual dysfunctionSexualitySmoking / vaping cessationSocial anxiety and phobiaSomatizationTraumatic brain injuryTrichotillomaniaWomen's issuesWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)Attachment-Based TherapyClient-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT)Existential TherapyEye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR)Jungian TherapyMindfulness TherapyMotivational InterviewingNarrative TherapyPsychodynamic TherapySolution-Focused TherapySomatic TherapyTrauma-Focused TherapyInternal Family SystemsSystemic Therapy

Experience

20+ years

Credentials

Hawaii, Colorado, Texas, Washington

Languages

English

Frequently asked questions

What issues might be addressed in sessions?

He works with a wide range of concerns including stress, anxiety, depression, addictions, trauma and abuse, grief, intimacy-related issues, ADHD, and career or parenting stresses.

How would you describe his therapy style?

His style is practical and collaborative, focusing on clear goals and skills you can use between meetings. Conversations are grounded and aimed at daily improvement.

What background does he bring to his work?

He has 20 years of experience working with people across several states and with varied life challenges, including long-term issues and major life transitions.

What credentials and region are associated with this therapist?

He holds the credentials LMHC and LPC and practices in Texas with licensure noted for HI LMHC and TX LPC.

Which languages are supported for sessions?

Sessions are offered in English and he accepts international clients.

What session formats are available?

The original biography does not list exact session formats; please confirm current session options before booking.

How are fees and payment handled?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.

What is the first step to begin working together?

Use the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule according to the therapist's availability.

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