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John Mclaughlin

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John Mclaughlin

United Kingdom

Experienced counsellor for men's wellbeing

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  • Practical steps
  • Values-based work
  • Emotion skills

About John

John Mclaughlin is a counsellor based in the United Kingdom with six years of experience supporting people through stress, anxiety and relationship concerns. He works with issues such as self-esteem, motivation, and confidence, and offers support around grief, addiction, trauma, eating and sleeping difficulties, and career changes. He also helps people navigating identity and intimacy-related worries.

He aims to create an open, non-judgemental space where people can talk about difficult thoughts and feelings. Sessions focus on practical steps and clearer ways of thinking, together with grounding strategies for when emotions feel overwhelming. John encourages small, manageable changes that fit into everyday life.

His practice draws on several approaches that guide how conversations and exercises unfold. Cognitive Behavioural Therapy, for example, looks at the links between thoughts, feelings and actions and helps people try different responses. Acceptance and Commitment Therapy helps clarify what matters most and build actions around those values.

John also uses attachment-based ideas to understand how early relationships shape current patterns, and client-centred work to ensure the pace suits each person. Dialectical Behaviour Therapy techniques can be used when emotion regulation and distress tolerance are priorities. The mix is tailored to what each person needs.

He works in English and accepts international clients. To begin, people use the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire and then schedule sessions according to availability. Costs vary with location and sessions use a subscription that can be cancelled at any time.

Therapeutic approaches and online working

John commonly uses Cognitive Behavioural Therapy, which helps people spot unhelpful thinking patterns and try different behaviours to test new outcomes. It can be useful for anxiety, depression and practical problems such as sleep and work-related stress. Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) is also part of his approach; ACT focuses on clarifying personal values and taking small actions that align with what matters most while accepting difficult feelings. Attachment-Based Therapy informs how he looks at relationship patterns, helping people understand repeating cycles rooted in early connections.

Finding the right approach is part of the work. He treats therapy as a collaborative process and will discuss different methods with each person to decide what fits their needs, goals and preferences. That decision can change as work progresses.

The original biography does not list specific session formats, so please confirm available online options before booking. Online sessions can make it easier to fit therapy into a busy week, reduce travel time and allow shorter check-ins when needed. They also allow conversations to continue when relocating or living abroad. Registered or accredited professionals and therapists use a range of methods to make remote work practical, and John will help choose an arrangement that suits daily life and commitments.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Stress, AnxietyRelationship issuesFamily conflictsSelf esteemDepression

Also works with

AddictionsLGBTTrauma and abuseGriefIntimacy-related issuesEating disordersSleeping disordersParenting issuesAnger managementCareer difficultiesBipolar disorderCoping with life changesCoachingCompassion fatigueADHD

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAdoption and foster careAging and geriatric issuesAntisocial personalityAttachment issuesAutism and Asperger SyndromeAvoidant personalityBDSM, kink, and alternative sex cultureBlended family issuesBody imageCancerCaregiver issues and stressChronic pain, illness, and disabilityCo-morbidityCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesCoping with natural or human-caused disasterDependent personalityDissociationDivorce and separationDomestic violenceDrug and alcohol addictionEating and food-related issuesEmptinessFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFatherhood issuesFertility issuesFirst responder issuesForgivenessGender dysphoriaGuilt and shameHoardingHospice and end-of-life counselingImmigration issuesImpulsivityInfidelityIntellectual disabilityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisVeteran and Armed Forces IssuesMoney and financial issuesMood disordersMulticultural concernsNarcissismObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPanic disorder and panic attacksParanoiaPersonality disordersPhobiasPolyamory / non-monogamous relationshipsPostpartum depressionPost-traumatic stressPregnancy and childbirthPrejudice and discriminationProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-harmSelf-loveSex addictionSexual assault and abuseSexual dysfunctionSexualitySmoking / vaping cessationSocial anxiety and phobiaWomen's issuesWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)Attachment-Based TherapyClient-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT)Existential TherapyJungian TherapyMindfulness TherapyMotivational InterviewingPsychodynamic TherapySolution-Focused TherapyTrauma-Focused TherapyInternal Family Systems

Experience

6+ years

Credentials

United Kingdom

Languages

English

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of problems can be discussed here?

John supports people with a wide range of concerns including stress, anxiety, depression, relationship and family issues, addiction, grief, intimacy-related and identity matters, and challenges with sleep, eating and career changes.

How would you describe his therapeutic style?

He offers a practical, conversational style that combines gentle challenge with hands-on strategies. Sessions aim to be collaborative and paced to each person.

What experience does he bring to therapy?

John has six years of professional experience working with people facing emotional and practical life difficulties.

What are his credentials and location?

He is listed with the BACP and practises from the United Kingdom.

Which languages are supported and can I access sessions abroad?

Sessions are offered in English and John accepts international clients.

What session formats are available?

The biography does not specify session formats; please confirm current session options with the service before booking.

How much do sessions cost?

Costs vary by location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription model that can be cancelled at any time.

How do I begin working with him?

Start by selecting the Start Therapy button, completing a short matching questionnaire, and scheduling sessions according to the therapist's availability.

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