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Erin Spensley

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Erin Spensley

Wisconsin

Practical, collaborative therapy for life transitions

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About Erin

Erin Spensley is a Licensed Professional Counselor (LPC) practicing in Wisconsin. She focuses on helping people who are dealing with stress, anxiety, depression, relationship struggles, and the effects of trauma. Erin aims to make therapy welcoming for LGBTQ+ people and for adults working through life changes.

Erin spends time getting to know each person and what matters most to them. She uses clear, practical ways to work on things like communication, self-esteem, sleep, and coping with grief. Sessions are conversational and goal-focused so people leave with concrete steps they can try between visits.

Her approach pulls from several methods, including attachment-based ideas, client-centered listening, cognitive behavioral techniques, and skills from dialectical behavior therapy. That means she pays attention to relationship patterns, supports clients in naming their values, and helps change thoughts and behaviors that cause distress.

Erin has six years of experience helping adults navigate challenges such as addiction, ADHD, intimacy concerns, and career stress. She also addresses niche topics like kink and alternative sex culture, blended family questions, caregiving strain, and body image struggles.

People who choose Erin often want a practical, collaborative style. She helps clients set achievable goals and build skills for everyday life. To begin, readers should confirm session options and scheduling details before booking.

How her approaches translate to online therapy

Attachment-based work focuses on how early and current relationship patterns affect feelings and behavior. In online sessions this can look like talking through relationship histories, noticing recurring patterns, and practicing new ways of relating. Client-centered therapy emphasizes empathic listening and letting the client's experience guide the work; online meetings provide a consistent space to be heard and reflected back. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) looks at thoughts and actions that keep problems going and uses practical exercises to change them, such as trying new behaviors between sessions or tracking thoughts during the week.

Finding the right approach is a team effort. The therapist will discuss goals, try methods that fit the person's needs, and adjust based on what helps. Clients and therapist decide together whether to focus more on skills, insight, or relationship patterns as therapy proceeds.

Confirm the therapist's current session options before booking, as formats are not listed here. Online work can make scheduling easier and help people keep consistent visits around work or family demands. It can also allow shorter check-ins when needed, or permit sessions where being on camera is optional to reduce fatigue. Ask about specific session formats when you begin the matching process to find what fits your routine.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Also works with

AddictionsLGBTFamily conflictsIntimacy-related issuesEating disordersSleeping disordersParenting issuesAnger managementSelf esteemCareer difficultiesBipolar disorderCoping with life changesCoachingCompassion fatigueADHD

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAging and geriatric issuesAntisocial personalityAttachment issuesAutism and Asperger SyndromeAvoidant personalityBDSM, kink, and alternative sex cultureBlended family issuesBody imageCancerCaregiver issues and stressCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesCoping with natural or human-caused disasterDependent personalityDisruptive Mood Dysregulation Disorder (DMDD)DissociationDivorce and separationDomestic violenceDrug and alcohol addictionEating and food-related issuesFamily problemsGuilt and shameImpulsivityInfidelityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisMoney and financial issuesMood disordersNarcissismObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPanic disorder and panic attacksParanoiaPersonality disordersPhobiasPolyamory / non-monogamous relationshipsPost-traumatic stressPrejudice and discriminationProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-harmSelf-loveSex addictionSexual assault and abuseSexual dysfunctionSexualitySmoking / vaping cessationSocial anxiety and phobiaSomatizationTrichotillomaniaWomen's issuesWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Attachment-Based TherapyClient-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)Gottman MethodJungian TherapyMindfulness TherapyMotivational InterviewingNarrative TherapyPsychodynamic TherapySolution-Focused TherapySomatic TherapyTrauma-Focused TherapySystemic Therapy

Experience

6+ years

Credentials

Wisconsin

Languages

English

Frequently asked questions

What concerns does Erin address?

She works with stress, anxiety, depression, grief, relationship issues, trauma and abuse, addictions, ADHD, and many related concerns listed in her specialties.

What is her therapeutic style like?

Her style is collaborative and practical, combining client-centered listening with structured techniques to build skills and clarify goals.

How much experience does she have?

Erin has six years of clinical experience working with adults on a range of emotional and relationship concerns.

Where is Erin licensed and based?

She is a Licensed Professional Counselor (LPC) practicing in Wisconsin.

What languages are sessions offered in?

Sessions are offered in English.

Can international clients work with her?

She does not accept international clients at this time.

How are sessions priced?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.

How do I get started with Erin?

Select the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule a session according to therapist availability.

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