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Martin Stubbs

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Martin Stubbs

United Kingdom

Calm, practical support for men's wellbeing

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  • 15 years experience
  • Evidence-based techniques
  • Works with relationships

About Martin

Martin Stubbs is a counsellor with 15 years of professional experience working in the United Kingdom. He offers a calm, approachable presence for people who are nervous about starting therapy. Martin aims to make the first step feel manageable and acknowledges the courage it takes to reach out.

He focuses on relationship and family concerns, grief and loss, depression, ADHD and eating-related issues. He also helps people deal with abandonment, attachment difficulties, body image, blended family problems and communication strain. His work covers caring roles, ageing matters, family of origin issues and separation or divorce challenges.

In sessions Martin aims to create an open environment where thoughts and feelings can be spoken without judgement. He listens for what matters most to each person and helps them weigh options for change. Conversations are practical and grounded in real-life problems rather than abstract theory.

Martin uses evidence-based therapeutic techniques and tailors his approach to the person in front of him. He encourages collaboration so goals and methods are agreed together. Over time he supports people to build clearer thinking, steadier emotions and more manageable day-to-day routines.

People looking to start are asked to use the service sign-up flow and complete a short matching questionnaire. That helps pair a person with a suitable therapist and schedule sessions according to availability.

Approaches and how online work can fit into life

Martin uses evidence-based therapeutic techniques that focus on helping people manage emotions and improve relationships. One common approach he uses emphasizes talking through current problems and building practical coping skills to reduce distress and improve day-to-day functioning. This helps with issues such as depression, grief and stress management.

Another approach focuses on understanding patterns in relationships and attachment. Sessions explore how past experiences shape current reactions and help people try different ways of relating that can reduce conflict and loneliness. This is useful for family tensions, communication problems and feelings of abandonment.

Finding the right approach is part of the work. Martin collaborates with each person to choose methods that match their goals, preferences and circumstances. He invites feedback and adjusts plans as needed so the therapy feels like a shared project rather than a fixed programme.

Please confirm which session formats are currently offered before booking, as the biography does not specify formats. In general, online work can make it easier to fit therapy into a busy life, for example by reducing travel time, allowing shorter check-ins during a day, or offering options that avoid being on camera when preferred. Ask about available formats when you complete the matching questionnaire so arrangements can be made to suit your routine.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Relationship issuesFamily conflictsGriefDepressionADHD

Also works with

Eating disorders

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAging and geriatric issuesAttachment issuesAutism and Asperger SyndromeBlended family issuesBody imageCaregiver issues and stressCommunication problemsControl issuesDivorce and separationDomestic violenceEating and food-related issuesEmptinessFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFatherhood issuesFirst responder issuesForgivenessGuilt and shameHospice and end-of-life counselingInfidelityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisMood disordersNarcissismObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPanic disorder and panic attacksPersonality disordersPostpartum depressionPost-traumatic stressPregnancy and childbirthPrejudice and discriminationSeasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-harmSelf-loveSexual assault and abuseSexual dysfunctionSexualitySocial anxiety and phobiaWomen's issuesYoung adult issues

Experience

15+ years

Credentials

United Kingdom

Languages

English

Frequently asked questions

What concerns does this counsellor help with?

Martin helps people with relationship and family issues, grief, depression, ADHD and eating-related problems. He also works on attachment, abandonment, body image, communication and separation concerns.

What is his therapeutic style like?

He keeps sessions practical and down-to-earth and aims to build an open, non-judgemental space. Conversations focus on everyday problems and clear next steps.

How long has he been practising?

He has 15 years of professional experience working with people in the United Kingdom.

What credentials does he hold and where does he practise?

He is registered with the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy, BACP, and practises in the United Kingdom.

Which languages are supported?

Sessions are offered in English.

Can international clients work with him?

He does not accept international clients at this time.

How are sessions charged?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription that can be cancelled at any time.

How do I begin working with him?

Use the Start Therapy button, complete the short matching questionnaire, and then schedule sessions according to the therapist's availability.

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